اللَّهُمَّ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِنَا، وَأَصْلِحْ ذَاتَ بَيْنِنَا، وَاهْدِنَا سُبُلَ السَّلَامِ، وَنَجِّنَا مِنَ الظُّلُمَاتِ إِلَى النُّورِ، وَجَنِّبْنَا الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ، وَبَارِكْ لَنَا فِي أَسْمَاعِنَا، وَأَبْصَارِنَا، وَقُلُوبِنَا، وَأَزْوَاجِنَا، وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا، وَتُبْ عَلَيْنَا، إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ التَّوَّابُ الرَّحِيمُ
O Allah, unite our hearts, reconcile that which is between us, guide us to the paths of peace, deliver us from darkness into light, keep us away from all shameful deeds, whether apparent or hidden, and bless our hearing, our sight, our hearts, our spouses, and our offspring. Turn to us, for indeed, You are the Accepter of Repentance, the Most Merciful.
Allahumma allif bayna qulubina, wa aslih dhata baynina, wahdina subulas-salam, wa najjina minadh-dhulumati ilan-nur, wa jannibnal-fawashimaa thahara minha wa maa batan, wa barik lana fi asmaa'ina, wa absarina, wa qulubina, wa azwajina, wa dhurriyyatina, wa tub 'alayna, innaka antat-Tawwabur-Raheem.
When to Read
This dua is particularly powerful when you feel a disconnect with a loved one, whether a spouse, family member, or close friend. Recite it when conversations feel one-sided, when you feel your perspective isn't being understood, or when you sense a growing distance. It's a beautiful prayer for reconciliation and strengthening bonds, asking Allah to mend what is broken in the relationship.
How to Read
Begin with sincerity and a clear intention to seek Allah's help in improving the relationship. Raise your hands in supplication, a Sunnah posture for dua. Recite the Arabic text clearly and with reflection on its meaning. You can also translate the essence of the dua into your own words, specifically mentioning the person or situation you are concerned about. Make sincere du'a for understanding, empathy, and mutual respect to be established.
Virtues & Benefits
This comprehensive dua encompasses several vital aspects for healthy relationships. It asks Allah to 'unite our hearts' (allif bayna qulubina), fostering genuine affection and understanding. It seeks to 'reconcile that which is between us' (aslih dhata baynina), addressing conflicts and misunderstandings. By asking for guidance to 'paths of peace' and deliverance 'from darkness into light,' we seek clarity and resolution over confusion and negativity. The prayer also includes blessings for our senses, hearts, families, and offspring, highlighting the holistic nature of well-being. This supplication is a means to draw closer to Allah and, through Him, to one another, strengthening the fabric of our relationships.
Source & Authentication
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) used to teach them this du'a, saying: 'Allahumma allif bayna qulubina, wa aslih dhata baynina, wahdina subulas-salam, wa najjina minadh-dhulumati ilan-nur, wa jannibnal-fawashimaa thahara minha wa maa batan, wa barik lana fi asmaa'ina, wa absarina, wa qulubina, wa azwajina, wa dhurriyyatina, wa tub 'alayna, innaka antat-Tawwabur-Raheem.' (O Allah, unite our hearts, reconcile that which is between us, guide us to the paths of peace, deliver us from darkness into light, keep us away from all shameful deeds, whether apparent or hidden, and bless our hearing, our sight, our hearts, our spouses, and our offspring. Turn to us, for indeed, You are the Accepter of Repentance, the Most Merciful.)