Dua & Sunnah

Patience and Fortitude During the Loss of a Child

Patience & Sabr
Sahih HadithBook of Funerals 918

إِنَّا لِلَّٰهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ اللَّهُمَّ أْجُرْنِي فِي مُصِيبَتِي وَأَخْلِفْنِي خَيْرًا مِنْهَا

Verily, we belong to Allah, and to Him we shall return. O Allah, reward me in my affliction and recompense me with something better than it.

Innā lillāhi wa innā ilayhi rāji'ūn. Allāhumma-jurni fī muṣībatī wa-khlifnī khayran minhā.

When to Read

This profound supplication is ideally recited immediately upon hearing the devastating news of a child's passing, or at any point when grief and sorrow overwhelm you. It serves as a powerful anchor to Allah's (SWT) will and a plea for divine support during an unimaginable trial.

How to Read

Recite this dua with sincerity and a heartfelt submission to Allah's decree. Focus on the meaning as you utter the words, allowing them to strengthen your resolve and draw you closer to your Creator. It can be recited audibly or silently, by oneself or with supportive family members.

Virtues & Benefits

This dua embodies the Islamic concept of *sabrun jameel* (beautiful patience). By acknowledging our return to Allah and seeking His reward in hardship, we affirm our faith and trust in His wisdom. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ taught that for those who patiently endure the loss of a loved one, especially a child, Allah will ensure they enter Paradise. In another narration, he ﷺ said: 'No Muslim is afflicted with a calamity and remembers it as something belonging to Allah, and says: *'We belong to Allah and to Him we shall return. O Allah, reward me for my affliction and give me something better than it'*, but Allah will reward him for his affliction and give him something better than it.' (Sahih Muslim 918). This promise offers immense solace and a tangible spiritual reward for bearing such immense pain.

Source & Authentication

Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say: 'There is no Muslim who is afflicted with a calamity and remembers it as something belonging to Allah, and says: *'We belong to Allah and to Him we shall return. O Allah, reward me for my affliction and give me something better than it'*, but Allah will reward him for his affliction and give him something better than it.' Umm Salamah said: 'When Abu Salamah died, I said this very prayer, and Allah gave me the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) as a better substitute.' (Sahih Muslim 918)
Sahih HadithBook of Funerals 918
Ad Space

Related Duas

Get Daily Duas in Your Inbox

Receive a beautiful dua every morning to start your day with remembrance.