اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ صَبْرِي عَلَى مَا أُحِبُّ وَمَا أَكْرَهُ، وَلَا تَجْعَلْ لِي فِي ذَلِكَ شَيْئًا إِلاَّ فُزْتُ بِهِ.
O Allah, make my patience steadfast regarding what I like and what I dislike, and do not let me encounter anything in that regard without my achieving success through it.
Allahumma ij'al sabri 'ala ma uhibbu wa ma akrahu, wa la taj'al li fi dhalika shay'an illa fuztu bihi.
When to Read
This dua is particularly relevant for our elderly brothers and sisters facing the physical challenges and pains that often accompany old age. It can be recited at any time, but it's especially beneficial when feeling the onset of discomfort, weakness, or when facing situations that test one's patience and resolve. It serves as a constant reminder to turn to Allah for strength during difficult times.
How to Read
Recite this dua with sincerity and a sincere heart, focusing on the meaning and the request for Allah's help. It's best to raise your hands slightly, as one would when making general supplication, and to face the Qiblah if possible. Reflect on the words and truly ask Allah to grant you the inner strength to accept what He decrees, whether it is pleasant or unpleasant, and to turn every trial into a means of attaining His pleasure and reward.
Virtues & Benefits
This powerful supplication encapsulates the essence of true reliance on Allah and the virtue of patience (sabr). By asking Allah to make our patience firm in all circumstances, we are seeking His divine assistance in navigating life's trials, especially those that come with age. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ taught us the immense value of patience, stating that **'No one is more patient than Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, upon hearing abuse; they attribute sons to Him, yet He grants them health and provision.'** (Sahih al-Bukhari 7379). The success promised in this dua refers to the ultimate success in the Hereafter, achieved through adhering to Allah's commands and embracing His decree with contentment. For the elderly, this can mean finding peace and spiritual growth even amidst physical decline.
Source & Authentication
This dua is found in Musnad Ahmad, narrated by Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to teach us supplications to say. He also mentioned a narration in Musnad Ahmad 22465: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: 'O Allah, make my patience steadfast regarding what I like and what I dislike, and do not let me encounter anything in that regard without my achieving success through it.'