اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ فِعْلَ خَيْرَاتِكَ، وَتَرْكَ مُنْكَرَاتِكَ، وَحُبَّ المَسَاكِينِ، وَأَنْ تَغْفِرَ لِي، وَتَرْحَمَنِي، وَإِذَا أَرَدْتَ فِي خَلْقِكَ فِتْنَةً فَتَوَفَّنِي إِلَيْكَ غَيْرَ مُفْتُتَنٍ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ حُبَّكَ، وَحُبَّ مَنْ يُحِبُّكَ، وَحُبَّ عَمَلٍ يُقَرِّبُنِي إِلَى حُبِّكَ
O Allah, I ask You to enable me to do good deeds and abandon evil deeds, and to love the poor, and that You forgive me and have mercy upon me. And if You intend to try Your creation with tribulation, then take me to Yourself without my being tested. I ask You for Your love, and the love of those who love You, and the love of deeds which bring me closer to Your love.
Allahumma inni as'aluka fi'la khayratik, wa tark munakaratik, wa hubbal masakin, wa an taghfira li, wa tarhamani, wa idha aradta fi khalqika fitnatan fa tawaffani ilayka ghayra muftatan, wa as'aluka hubbak, wa hubba man yuhibbuk, wa hubba 'amalin yuqarribuni ila hubbik
When to Read
This comprehensive dua is perfect to recite when you feel overwhelmed by family disputes or when seeking Allah's guidance to foster love and reconciliation. It's especially potent during times of heightened tension, when you wish to surrender the outcome to Allah's perfect wisdom and seek His divine intervention for peace.
How to Read
Recite this dua with sincerity and a heart filled with trust in Allah. Imagine yourself placing the entire situation, with all its complexities and emotions, into Allah's hands. Focus on the essence of seeking His pleasure, His love, and the love of good deeds that can mend relationships and bring about positive change.
Virtues & Benefits
This dua encapsulates a profound reliance on Allah (Tawakkul). By asking Allah to guide your actions towards good, help you abandon evil, love the less fortunate, and grant forgiveness and mercy, you are essentially entrusting Him with your ability to navigate difficult situations, including family feuds. The part about being taken to Allah before being tested by tribulation highlights a deep desire for spiritual protection. Ultimately, it seeks Allah's love and the love of deeds that draw one closer to Him, which is the highest aspiration and the surest path to finding peace and resolution in all matters, including family reconciliation.
Source & Authentication
It was narrated from Abu Dharr that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'Shall I not tell you of something that will remove enmity from your heart?' They said: 'Yes, O Messenger of Allah.' He said: 'You should love for your brother what you love for yourself.' And he said: 'Allahumma inni as'aluka fi'la khayratik, wa tark munakaratik, wa hubbal masakin, wa an taghfira li, wa tarhamani, wa idha aradta fi khalqika fitnatan fa tawaffani ilayka ghayra muftatan, wa as'aluka hubbak, wa hubba man yuhibbuk, wa hubba 'amalin yuqarribuni ila hubbik'. (Translation: O Allah, I ask You to enable me to do good deeds and abandon evil deeds, and to love the poor, and that You forgive me and have mercy upon me. And if You intend to try Your creation with tribulation, then take me to Yourself without my being tested. I ask You for Your love, and the love of those who love You, and the love of deeds which bring me closer to Your love.)