اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ، وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ
O Allah, I ask You for its (the woman's) goodness and the goodness of what You have decreed for her, and I seek refuge in You from its evil and the evil of what You have decreed for her.
Allahumma inni as'aluka khairaha wa khaira ma jabaltaha 'alayhi, wa a'udhu bika min sharriha wa sharri ma jabaltaha 'alayhi
When to Read
This dua is specifically recommended to be recited when seeking marriage. It is best said after performing Istikhara prayer, or at least during the period of consideration, after making your intention to marry a particular person.
How to Read
Recite this dua with sincerity and humility. Raise your hands as you would for other supplications. Focus on the meaning, seeking Allah's wisdom and guidance beyond superficial attraction. Ensure you have a sincere intention to accept Allah's choice, even if it differs from your initial preference.
Virtues & Benefits
This dua is a powerful tool for ensuring that your choice of a life partner aligns with Allah's pleasure. It helps shift the focus from fleeting worldly attractions to the lasting qualities of deen (religious commitment) and character, which are the true measures of a suitable spouse according to Islamic teachings. By seeking Allah's blessing, you invite Barakah (blessings) into your marriage and protect yourselves from potential harm or unsuitability.
Source & Authentication
Jabir b. 'Abdullah reported: We were with the Apostle of Allah (ﷺ) that he said: If any one of you has decided to get married, he should pray two rak'ahs of prayer other than the obligatory ones and then say: (reciting the dua).