اللَّهُمَّ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِنَا، وَأَصْلِحْ ذَاتَ بَيْنِنَا، وَاهْدِنَا سُبُلَ السَّلَامِ، وَنَجِّنَا مِنَ الظُّلُمَاتِ إِلَى النُّورِ، وَجَنِّبْنَا الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ، وَبَارِكْ لَنَا فِي أَسْمَاعِنَا، وَأَبْصَارِنَا، وَقُلُوبِنَا، وَأَزْوَاجِنَا، وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا، وَتُبْ عَلَيْنَا، إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ التَّوَّابُ الرَّحِيمُ.
O Allah, unite our hearts, and reconcile the matters between us, and guide us to the paths of peace, and deliver us from darkness into light, and keep us away from all lewdness, outward and inward, and bless our hearing, our sight, our hearts, our spouses, and our offspring, and turn to us in forgiveness, indeed You are the Ever-Turning, the Most Merciful.
Allahumma allif bayna qulubina, wa aslih dhata baynina, wahdina subulas-salam, wa najjina minadh-dhulumati ilan-nur, wa jannibnal-fawāḥisha ma ẓahara minha wa ma baṭan, wa barik lana fi asmā'ina, wa abṣārina, wa qulubina, wa azwājina, wa dhurriyyatina, wa tub 'alayna, innaka antat-Tawwabur-Raḥim.
When to Read
This comprehensive dua is perfect to recite when facing marital difficulties, misunderstandings, or stressful periods. It can be made individually or together with your spouse, especially after prayers or during times of reflection. It's particularly beneficial when you feel a disconnect or when communication becomes challenging, seeking Allah's help to foster deeper understanding and empathy.
How to Read
Recite this dua with sincerity and a focused heart. Imagine Allah's mercy encompassing you and your spouse. Reflect on each phrase and its meaning, visualizing the peace and unity you are asking for. It is recommended to raise your hands slightly during the dua, as is the custom when supplicating.
Virtues & Benefits
This powerful supplication, taught by the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, seeks Allah's assistance in strengthening the marital bond. It addresses the core aspects of a healthy relationship: unity of hearts, rectifying disputes, guiding towards peace, protection from sin, and seeking blessings in all aspects of life, including the spouse and children. By asking Allah to unite hearts and reconcile matters, we are directly invoking His help to build empathy and understanding, especially during tough times.
Source & Authentication
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught this dua: 'Allahumma allif bayna qulubina, wa aslih dhata baynina, wahdina subulas-salam, wa najjina minadh-dhulumati ilan-nur, wa jannibnal-fawāḥisha ma ẓahara minha wa ma baṭan, wa barik lana fi asmā'ina, wa abṣārina, wa qulubina, wa azwājina, wa dhurriyyatina, wa tub 'alayna, innaka antat-Tawwabur-Raḥim.' (O Allah, unite our hearts, and reconcile the matters between us, and guide us to the paths of peace, and deliver us from darkness into light, and keep us away from all lewdness, outward and inward, and bless our hearing, our sight, our hearts, our spouses, and our offspring, and turn to us in forgiveness, indeed You are the Ever-Turning, the Most Merciful.)