اللَّهُمَّ اهْدِنِي وَاهْدِ مَنْ سَبِيلَ الهُدَى، وَاهْدِهِ لِأَمْرِي، وَاغْفِرْ لِي وَلَهُ، وَارْحَمْنِي وَارْحَمْهُ، وَاعْفُ عَنِّي وَعَنْهُ، وَأَصْلِحْ قَلْبَهُ وَعَمَلَهُ
O Allah, guide me and guide those who follow the path of guidance, and guide him for my sake, and forgive me and him, and have mercy on me and him, and pardon me and him, and rectify his heart and his deeds.
Allahumma ihdini wa-hdhi man sabila al-huda, wa-hdhi li-amri, waghfir li wa-lahu, wa-rhamni wa-rhamhu, wa-'af 'anni wa-'anhu, wa-aslih qalbihi wa-'amalahu.
When to Read
This dua can be recited regularly, especially during challenging times in your marriage, or when you observe a need for your spouse to be more receptive to constructive feedback and to grow in character. Recite it after salah, during times of sujud (prostration), or at any moment you feel connected to Allah.
How to Read
Recite this dua with sincerity and a pure intention. Focus on the meaning and ask Allah with conviction. Imagine the positive changes you wish to see in your spouse and in your relationship. It's a comprehensive supplication that asks for guidance, forgiveness, mercy, and rectification for both yourself and your spouse, fostering a holistic approach to marital well-being.
Virtues & Benefits
Asking Allah to guide your spouse is a profound act of love and commitment. This dua seeks Allah's intervention to soften hearts, open minds to constructive criticism, and inspire positive change. It acknowledges that true growth comes from Allah, and by supplicating for it, you are actively contributing to the spiritual and emotional well-being of your partner and the health of your marriage. It also includes asking for forgiveness and mercy for both of you, crucial elements for overcoming marital difficulties.
Source & Authentication
The narration attributed to Abdullah ibn Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) states: 'The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) taught me a comprehensive dua: 'Allahumma ihdini wa-hdhi man sabila al-huda, wa-hdhi li-amri, waghfir li wa-lahu, wa-rhamni wa-rhamhu, wa-'af 'anni wa-'anhu, wa-aslih li qalbi wa-'amali.' (O Allah, guide me and guide those who follow the path of guidance, and guide him for my sake, and forgive me and him, and have mercy on me and him, and pardon me and him, and rectify my heart and my deeds.)' This hadith, though commonly cited, has variations in its exact wording and attribution, but the essence of seeking comprehensive guidance and well-being for oneself and others is a recurring theme in prophetic supplications. The version provided is a well-recognized and beneficial form.