اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جُبِلَتْ عَلَيْهِ ، وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَرِّ مَا جُبِلَتْ عَلَيْهِ
O Allah, I ask You for the good of it (this friendship) and the good of what You have created it upon, and I seek refuge in You from the evil of it and the evil of what You have created it upon.
Allahumma inni as'aluka khairaha wa khaira ma jubilat 'alayhi, wa a'udhu bika min sharriha wa sharri ma jubilat 'alayhi.
When to Read
This dua is perfect for the initial stages of a new friendship or when you feel a connection with someone new. Recite it after meeting someone you wish to build a strong, positive bond with, whether in person or even after a meaningful online interaction. It's about seeking Allah's blessing from the outset to ensure the relationship is built on good.
How to Read
Recite this dua sincerely with your heart directed towards Allah. You can say it quietly to yourself after an initial meeting or conversation. Imagine the person you've just connected with, and ask Allah to bless the nascent bond and protect it from any negative influences. It's a beautiful way to infuse intention and Tawakkul (reliance on Allah) into your social interactions.
Virtues & Benefits
This dua encapsulates seeking the best for the new relationship and seeking protection from its potential harms. By asking for 'khairaha' (its good) and 'khair ma jubilat 'alayhi' (the good of its nature), we are essentially asking Allah to ensure this friendship brings positive outcomes and is built on sound principles. Simultaneously, seeking refuge from 'sharriha' (its evil) and 'sharri ma jubilat 'alayhi' (the evil of its nature) is a proactive measure against misunderstandings, backbiting, or any other negative elements that can corrupt relationships. It aligns with the Islamic emphasis on brotherhood and sisterhood, asking Allah to make this new connection a source of mutual support, benefit, and closeness to Him.
Source & Authentication
The Prophet (peace be upon him) taught us to seek Allah's guidance and blessing in all matters, including when starting something new. While this specific wording is often attributed to seeking the good of a new garment or item, its principle extends beautifully to new relationships. The general principle is that the Prophet (peace be upon him) encouraged seeking the best from Allah and seeking His refuge from evil in all aspects of life.