اللَّهُمَّ اهْدِنِي وَلَا تُضِلَّنِي، وَاهْدِ مَنْ وَعَدْتَنِي لَهُ مِنِّي، وَأَعِزَّنِي وَلَا تُذِلَّنِي، وَارْزُقْنِي وَلَا تَحْرِمْنِي، وَاكْفِنِي وَلَا تَفْتِنِّي، وَاخْتَرْ لِي وَلَا تُخَيِّرْنِي.
O Allah, guide me and do not misguide me, and guide for me the one whom You have promised me (a spouse) from myself. Grant me honor and do not debase me. Provide for me and do not deprive me. Suffice me and do not tempt me. Choose for me and do not let me choose for myself.
Allahumma ihdini wa la tudhillani, wahdi man wa'adtani lahu minni, wa a'izzani wa la tudhillani, warzuqni wa la tahrimni, wakfini wa la taftinni, waktur li wa la tukhayyirni.
When to Read
This comprehensive dua is perfect to recite when you feel your spouse might be straying from the path of righteousness, or when you simply wish to invoke Allah's guidance for them and for your relationship. It's especially potent during times of personal reflection, after Salah, or during the blessed hours of the night. You can make it a regular part of your daily supplications, seeking Allah's continuous blessing and protection for your partner and your marriage.
How to Read
Recite this dua with sincere intention and a humble heart. Face the Qiblah if possible, raise your hands in supplication, and make a genuine plea to Allah. Believe in His ability to answer your prayers. It is also beneficial to accompany this dua with righteous actions, setting a good example, and engaging in loving, respectful conversation with your spouse about shared values and goals.
Virtues & Benefits
This powerful supplication encompasses seeking Allah's guidance for both yourself and your spouse, ensuring that your relationship is built on a foundation of faith and good conduct. It seeks protection from misguidance, humiliation, deprivation, and trials, while asking for Allah's favor, provision, and His perfect choice for your life together. By asking Allah to choose for you, you acknowledge His perfect knowledge and wisdom, submitting to His will for the betterment of your marriage.
Source & Authentication
The Prophet (peace be upon him) used to teach this dua to his companions: 'Allahumma ihdini wa la tudhillani, wahdi man wa'adtani lahu minni, wa a'izzani wa la tudhillani, warzuqni wa la tahrimni, wakfini wa la taftinni, waktur li wa la tukhayyirni.' (O Allah, guide me and do not misguide me, and guide for me the one whom You have promised me from myself. Grant me honor and do not debase me. Provide for me and do not deprive me. Suffice me and do not tempt me. Choose for me and do not let me choose for myself.)