اللَّهُمَّ مُؤَلِّفَ الْقُلُوبِ، أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قَلْبِي وَبَيْنَ قَلْبِ زَوْجِي، وَأَصْلِحْ ذَاتَ بَيْنِنَا
O Allah, the One who brings hearts together, bring my heart and my spouse's heart together, and mend what is between us.
Allahumma mu'allif al-qulubi, allif bayna qalbi wa bayna qalbi zawji, wa aslih dzeta baynana.
When to Read
This dua is deeply needed when you feel a growing distance, constant conflict, or lack of cooperation from your spouse. Recite it during times of difficulty, especially after prayers (Salah), when your heart is most receptive to supplication. Make it a regular part of your routine if you are facing ongoing marital challenges.
How to Read
Raise your hands in supplication, as is the etiquette when asking Allah. Face the Qiblah if possible. Utter the words with sincerity and a sincere hope in Allah's mercy. Focus on the meaning of the words, asking Allah to soften hearts and bring reconciliation. It is recommended to make dua for yourself and your spouse, even if the spouse is the source of difficulty.
Virtues & Benefits
This dua directly asks Allah, the Creator of love and affection, to foster harmony in your marriage. It acknowledges His power to unite hearts and resolve disputes. By seeking His help, you are aligning your efforts with divine support, increasing the chances of a positive outcome. Mending relationships is a highly rewarded act in Islam, and this dua is a tangible step towards fulfilling that.
Source & Authentication
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: 'Indeed, Allah creates hearts and turns them in whatever direction He wills. So, O people, supplicate: Allahumma mu'allif al-qulubi, allif bayna qalbi wa bayna qalbi zawji, wa aslih dzeta baynana.' (O Allah, the One who brings hearts together, bring my heart and my spouse's heart together, and mend what is between us.) [Narrated by Ibn Hibban in his Sahih, 1305. It is also narrated in similar wording in Muslim, though without the specific mention of the spouse.]