اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ، وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ
O Allah, I ask You for its goodness and the goodness of what You have decreed for it, and I seek refuge in You from its evil and the evil of what You have decreed for it.
Allahumma inni as'aluka khayraha wa khayra ma jabaltaha 'alayhi, wa a'udhu bika min sharriha wa sharri ma jabaltaha 'alayhi
When to Read
This dua is particularly relevant when proposing to a woman or after the proposal has been accepted, but before the marriage contract. It can also be recited regularly during the period of searching for a spouse, especially when one has identified a potential candidate. It is a prayer for seeking Allah's blessing and protection for the union.
How to Read
Recite this dua with sincerity and conviction, focusing on the meaning. It is best to recite it after the obligatory prayers or during times when dua is readily accepted, such as the last third of the night or between the adhan and iqamah. Visualize the qualities you hope for in a spouse and the harmony you wish for in your marriage as you supplicate.
Virtues & Benefits
This dua encapsulates the essence of seeking Allah's divine guidance in one of life's most significant decisions. By asking for the 'goodness' of the spouse and what Allah has 'decreed' for them, we acknowledge that true compatibility and piety are blessings from Him. Seeking refuge from 'evil' highlights our reliance on Allah to protect the marriage from discord and hardship. This proactive supplication aligns our desires with Allah's perfect plan, fostering a marriage built on a foundation of faith and mutual well-being, reflecting the prophetic emphasis on choosing a spouse for their deen (religion).
Source & Authentication
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught this dua when one proposes to a woman. The full context often involves the individual making the proposal and seeking Allah’s blessing for the union, encompassing both the individual and the outcome Allah has destined for them. The wording is adapted here to supplicate for the potential spouse.