اللَّهُمَّ اهْدِنِي لأَحْسَنِ الأَخْلاقِ لا يَهْدِي لأَحْسَنِها إِلاَّ أَنْتَ، وَاصْرِفْ عَنِّي سَيِّئَها لا يَصْرِفُ عَنِّي سَيِّئَها إِلاَّ أَنْتَ
O Allah, guide me to the best of manners, for none guides to the best of them except You. And turn me away from bad manners, for none turns away from bad manners except You.
Allahumma ihdini li-ahsanil-akhlaq, la yahdi li-ahsaniha illa anta, wasrif 'anni sayyi'aha, la yasrifu 'anni sayyi'aha illa anta
When to Read
Recite this dua before entering a meeting or gathering specifically convened to address and resolve conflicts or grievances within your community. It's particularly beneficial when tensions are high, or when you anticipate difficult conversations.
How to Read
Recite this dua sincerely and with conviction, focusing your intention on seeking Allah's guidance for yourself and for the collective wisdom of the group. Raise your hands as you would in supplication. Aim to internalize the meaning, asking Allah to imbue you and all participants with noble character traits that foster understanding and resolution.
Virtues & Benefits
This powerful dua, taught by the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, directly asks Allah for the best of character. In a setting meant to mend rifts, having the best manners – characterized by patience, kindness, wisdom, and fairness – is paramount. By seeking Allah's guidance, you are asking for the qualities needed to contribute positively to the resolution process, to speak with wisdom, listen with empathy, and act justly. This increases the likelihood of a successful, harmonious outcome for the community.
Source & Authentication
Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'O Allah, guide me to the best of manners, for none guides to the best of them except You. And turn me away from bad manners, for none turns away from bad manners except You.'