ุงููููููู ูู ุงููุฏูููู ููุฃูุญูุจูู ุงูุตููููููุงุชู ุฅููููููู ููุฃูุญูุจูู ุงููุฃูุนูู ูุงูู ุฅููููููู ููุฃูุญูุจูู ุงููุฃูุฎูููุงูู ุฅููููููู ููุงุฑูุฒูููููู ุฎูููุฑู ุงูุฏููููููุง ููุงููุขุฎูุฑูุฉูุ ุงููููููู ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุณูุฃููููู ุฎูููุฑู ุงูุฏููููููุง ููุงููุขุฎูุฑูุฉูุ ุงููููููู ูู ุฅููููู ุฃูุณูุฃููููู ุฃููู ุชูููููู ููููุจู ุงุจูููู / ุงุจูููุชูู ููู ููุฃููู ุชูุฑูุฒูููููุง ุฅูุฎูุงุกู ููููุฏููุง ุจูุนูุฏู ุงููุจูุนูุฏู ููุงููุฌูููุงุกูุ ุฑูุจูู ุงุฌูุนูููููู ู ููููู ู ุงูุตููููุงุฉู ููู ููู ุฐูุฑูููููุชูู ุฑูุจููููุง ููุชูููุจูููู ุฏูุนูุงุกู
O Allah, guide me to the prayers most beloved to You, the deeds most beloved to You, and the character traits most beloved to You, and grant me the goodness of this world and the Hereafter. O Allah, I ask You for the goodness of this world and the Hereafter. O Allah, I ask You to soften the heart of my son/daughter towards me and to grant us brotherhood and affection after distance and estrangement. My Lord, make me and my offspring establishers of the prayer. Our Lord, and accept my supplication.
Allahumma ihdini li-aแธฅabbiแนฃ-แนฃalawฤti ilayka wa aแธฅabbi l-aสฟmฤli ilayka wa aแธฅabbi l-akhlฤqi ilayka, warzuqnฤซ khayra d-dunyฤ wal-ฤkhirah. Allahumma innฤซ as'aluka khayra d-dunyฤ wal-ฤkhirah. Allahumma innฤซ as'aluka an tulฤซna qalba ibnฤซ / ibnati lฤซ wa an tarzuqanฤ ikhฤ'an wa wuddan baสฟda l-buสฟdi wal-jafฤ'i, Rabbijสฟalnฤซ muqฤซma แนฃ-แนฃalฤti wa min dhurriyyatฤซ, Rabbanฤ wa taqabbal duสฟฤ'ฤซ.
When to Read
This dua is particularly potent when facing a strained relationship with an adult child. Recite it consistently during the times when duas are most likely to be answered: after obligatory prayers, during the last third of the night, between the adhan and iqamah, on Fridays, and especially during the blessed days of Ramadan and the first ten days of Dhu al-Hijjah.
How to Read
Begin with a sincere intention (niyyah) to mend the relationship and seek Allah's help. Perform wudu (ablution) if possible. Begin by praising Allah and sending blessings upon the Prophet Muhammad ๏ทบ. Recite the dua with conviction, visualizing a positive and loving relationship with your child. It is also beneficial to reflect on your own role and shortcomings in the relationship. Persistence is key; continue reciting this dua regularly.
Virtues & Benefits
This comprehensive dua seeks Allah's guidance to improve one's own character and deeds, which indirectly impacts how we interact with others. It specifically asks Allah to soften the heart of the child, a direct plea for reconciliation. The inclusion of verses related to establishing prayer and seeking Allah's acceptance of supplication underscores the importance of seeking divine help in all aspects of life, including family relationships. It fosters patience and reliance on Allah (tawakkul) during difficult times.